A Love that Lasts Forever
Abah & I, Perth. circa 1993 |
My late father.
1937-2007.
May Allah s.w.t. grant him the highest level of Paradise, ameen.
1937-2007.
May Allah s.w.t. grant him the highest level of Paradise, ameen.
In 2007, I lost my father to a sudden death. He passed away peacefully in his sleep.
He always said that's how he wanted to go when his time came.
The love between a man and his family is a love that lasts forever.He spent his life giving love to his family and spreading joy even to strangers.
He contributed to his country and he loved his family unconditionally.
My father was a special man.
Not only was his life a blessing but so was his death.
Because it taught us what it meant to lead a meaningful life.
It's not about wealth, power or getting what you want all the time.
It really is about how much good you've done while you were alive;
the hearts you touched and the people you loved,
your relationship with The Almighty,
and never giving up on the people and dreams that mean the world to you.
I miss him more than anyone can ever imagine.
{Day 30 of the 30 Day Photo Challenge}I always will.
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It really is about how much good you've done while you were alive;
the hearts you touched and the people you loved."
My dad passed away last dec.. peacefully at home and in good health like he wanted...Alhamdulillah..
I missed him so much, it is unbearable.. and his unconditionally love always remained in heart.Al-Fatihah...
Ameen.
I cannot say I know what you feel. I haven't lost a parent, alhamdulillah, but all I can say is I imagine how heartbreaking it must be to loose the man you most admire in your life. He has been very blessed to have a daughter like you. One that will continue to pray for him and keep his generous memory alive. He sounds like an amazing man. May Allah grant him the best of paradise. Ameen.
I remembered you spoke about your dad during our conversation and I can feel that how much you loved him and was affected by his passing. This is a very honest and raw piece of writing. Thank you for always writing from your heart. And may your dad will be blessed with Jannah, insya-Allah.
*hugs*
*hugs*
He really has been, as elisa has said, been blessed to have been given a daughter like you. may Allah swt grant him Jannat Al Firdous, ameen. Be happy always Sha, you deserve it.
From Allah we came and to him we shall return.
Beautiful picture btw.
(((Hugs)))
You father sounds like a wonderful man, may the Almighty grant him a high place in jannah, Ameen. He's very lucky to have daughter like you, stay strong Shahirah, stay happy.
I know what it is to loose a close loved one, and my heart goes out to you, my dear.
It makes me think... my husband has a 12 yr. old daughter from a previous marriage. She lives with her mother and we only see her now and again. We live near to her, my husband phones her every day, buys her what she needs and is always there for her, but she doesn't seem interested. He won't see or hear from her for weeks, and then when she answers her phone (that HE pays for)she will say she's "busy", and there is always some flimsy reason why she can't see him. It breaks his heart, because despite the divorce he has remained close to her and tries to be there for her and be a good father. It breaks MY heart to hear him telling her he loves and misses her, and asking "why don't you want to see me?" I wish she could hear you talk about YOUR father, maybe then she would appreciate what she has, But some people never realize what they have until it's too late...
Making dua that Allah has mercy on your father (and everyone else's parents/loved ones who passed away) and grant them all Jannah.
And InshaAllah, you/we all will meet them again in Jannah.
Thank you for this post. Its a GREAT reminder that we will soon follow them; that this life is only a test, and the beginning- the first train stop in our journey.
:)
My dad passed away last year, coming this March it will be a year, he lost the battle to heart coronary disease. Times really files like arrows.
At first I find it hard to face it and I always felt that I have lot's sins to him. But after reading your sister stories in the magazine. Am kind of inspired, as we've shared the same experiences.
And al fatihah to your father and may Allah bless him and grant the best jannah. Amin
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You're so strong. Including the rest here who have also loved a lost one.
He raised you up so wonderfully. Your are one of the most humble and loveliest girl I've ever met and I'm not exaggerating. If I've a baby girl someday, I'd be proud and thankful that she'd grow up to be like you. <3